Welcome to my blog, a space dedicated to understanding, recognizing, and overcoming abuse. Here, I share insights on identifying different forms of abuse, practical steps to protect yourself or loved ones, and resources to help on the path to healing. Through my own experiences and research, I hope these posts provide knowledge, strength, and hope for anyone seeking clarity or support.


Myths About Child Abuse and Neglect

By Phyllis Pyles

For a better understanding of child abuse and neglect, you will need to know the ones that are purely mythical. MYTH: Parents who abuse their children are bad and unloving... Read more »

Finding a Therapist

By Phyllis Pyles

Finding a therapist right for you can be a daunting task, but do not give up. There are many different types of therapy (cognitive, behavioral, psychotherapy, behavioral, solution-oriented, or family... Read more »

Psychological Disorders Associated with Child Abuse

By Phyllis Pyles

Nothing in this content, or on this blog should be considered, or used as a substitute for, medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. This site is strictly for education and awareness... Read more »

Pedophilia vs. Child Molestation

By Phyllis Pyles

Is there a difference in the two? According to the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) molestation is a crime, while pedophilia is a mental disorder. Never mind... Read more »

Child Neglect and Its Impact

By Phyllis Pyles

When speaking of child abuse — neglect often gets swept under the rug. Some believe neglect isn’t a real type of abuse. However, not meeting a child’s physical, emotional, health... Read more »

Psychological Effects of Child Abuse

By Phyllis Pyles

According to "Adults Surviving Child Abuse," “The abuse is rarely an isolated event. It often occurs in the context of other factors which may harm a child's development, such as... Read more »

Red Flags for Child Abuse

By Phyllis Pyles

There are an abundance of signs and symptoms when a child is being abused. The child may feel ashamed, embarrassed, fearful, guilty, or confused. General red flags you should watch... Read more »

Consequences of Abuse and Neglect on Children

By Phyllis Pyles

The consequences of child abuse and neglect can be devastating. This subject has been studied for decades, and the effects can ruin lives with 30% of the childhood victims becoming... Read more »

National Child Abuse Statistics

By Phyllis Pyles

An estimated 558,899 children were victims of child abuse and neglect in the US (2022) US Child Welfare authorities investigate the safety of more than 7.5 million children in the... Read more »

First Thing To Do When You Suspect/Know Child Abuse is Occurring

By Phyllis Pyles

Get Help Now! Call Our 24/7 Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-422-4453 The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) is dedicated to the prevention of child abuse. Serving the... Read more »

For Emergencies 911 or Links

By Phyllis Pyles

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 800-422-4453 www.childhelphotline.org National Suicide Prevention Hotline Call 988 https://988lifeline.org Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network 800-656-4673 www.rainn.org Child Welfare Information Gateway 800-394-3366 www.childwelfare.com ASCA (Adults... Read more »

Defining Types of Abuse

By Phyllis Pyles

Child Abuse needs defined by the professionals for accuracy and liable. Therefore, I have used the WHO definitions of abuse. CHILD ABUSE What is child abuse? The World Health Organization... Read more »

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